Leadership Question: How do you encourage creativity from your team?

How do you encourage "outside the box" thinking from your team?

One of the things I do as a leader is to find leaders in all areas of our culture, make an appointment with them and then I ask them questions. I don’t want to waste their time, so I have a list of questions already prepared.  Today is what I call a “leadership question” answered.  
The answer is my answer, but know it is from taking the answers from all these leaders, applying them and evaluating what worked in Women’s Ministry.
Where do you come up with all that? How do you encourage thinking outside the box, with your team?


Zip my lip. 

When I meet with the team, I throw out the vision or the problem and then put the shut to the up. I let them discuss it.  I let them get to the solution.  Sometimes I’m tempted to get to the point (we don’t have all day, guys).  But if I do that I somehow put a small stop in their creative flow.  You see I want them to grow, I want to see each person on the team to step up to their potential.  I want each member on the team or staff to be able to think for themselves. When I step in, they step out.  When I interrupt with what I believe to be the solution, I create a political environment. Who wants politics in church? The team becomes hesitant to disagree with me.  Instead of focusing on the solution they are now trying to figure out how to get my ear and get their way. 


Recruit some outsiders. 


Get someone on the outside looking in’s perspective to share with the team. When putting a team together, recruit from different demographics and generations.  And allow them to be themselves.  Encourage the team to read autobiographies and books outside their area of influence, such as marketing, business, justice. Get them to some conferences, not only is it a great retreat, but also inspiring.


Recognize creative thinking.   


 If I want more creative thinking on the team, then I recognize it in front of everybody.  Recognize them for their contributions and do it sincerely. 


Create a safe place, an incubator. 


If people don’t feel safe, they will offer nothing to the table.  This means you will be the only one coming up with all the ideas. This also means no one feels ownership and will not put their all into it.  Ownership is key to commitment. I believe one of the reasons so many women’s ministry leaders are combing the internet for new ideas, for events, fellowship, counseling etc.. is because their team, if they have one, are treated as workers for the queen bee.  If people feel like the temps or “rented” they aren’t going to stick around for long. People want to feel like they belong, not used!  So create a place that is safe for them to be themselves without fear of being ashamed or embarrassed by their ideas. Allow some room for them to implement those ideas.  You might have the next Joyce Meyers, Lisa Bevere, “Women of Faith” on your hands, let them grow outside the box and bring on the revolution!







7 Things You Can Do to Reduce Complaints

7 Things you can do to reduce complaints

We all have them. You know the "criticizer."  They complain about everything. If that wasn't enough, they are like arsenic in the water cooler, they spread it around to everyone. Before you know it, what you thought was going well, like the big event, was really a total fiasco. (according to them anyway).


What do you do?  They are volunteers.  You do want to be nice and not lose them.  They have their good qualities.  Some are so bad you just want to … well let's not go there, it's turning out to be a nice day and we wouldn't want to ruin that.


However, there are those that are genuinely concerned and have something constructive to say. If we treated them like the chronic complainer  we will loose them. So treat every complainer with some discernment and grace.


Here are 7 things you can do to reduce complaints


1 - Genuinely care, they can feel it.  I know sometimes that's a whole lot easier said than done.  However it can be done.  Chase God down for this.  He has all the love you will need.  


2 - Remain present in the situation. No mental vacations when they start.  Give them your full attention. Listen to them, they could be right and you could be wrong!


3- Under promote and over deliver. Set realistic expectations with them. Keep your promises.


4 - No "ick" face!! No "Ugh" face either.  And especially forget the "oh no, not you again" face.


5 -  Ask them to pray for you.  Yep, stick your hands out as if asking for prayer and let them pray for you right then and there.  If they aren't wiling to bring this to God right on the spot, then there is something else going on.  While they are praying your asking God for two things "is it true?" and "wisdom and a love for this person"


6- Recruit them to help.  (unless it is really severe and need an altar call instead) You could say "I appreciate your eye for excellence, that's a good suggestion.  Maybe next time you can volunteer to do that for us."


7.  Whatever you do, don't dismiss their complaint because you think they don't get you or because of their age, gender or new in the faith.  That's the business end of pride and who wants that!  If one person is a constant complainer that's one thing, but if a number of women from different circles are, take note.  Something is going on!



Video pick "How To Start A Fire"

How To Start a Fire.

So I thought it would be kind of cool to find a video of how to start a fire and apply it to "How To Start a Fire In Your Ministry."  


You know get things going, get people moving passionately, see signs and wonders, miracles.  The whole "she-bang!" Do the whole analogy thing.


I found this video and thought "yep, that'll do it!" I love that he wasn't afraid to go hi-tech. 


I'll let you leaders put the analogy together.  


Enjoy!








They Don't Get It: people in the Bible

People in the Bible that didn't get it


I have had some feedback and some interesting conversations about this series.  Those conversations has inspired this post; People in the Bible that didn't get it.  You know the epic fails of the Bible.  I'm only going to list a few.  But please add to the list.


The purpose of this list is to remind ourselves we don't get it all the time. If some of the leaders, true servants in the Bible missed it we can too.  God puts it this way "be careful where you stand lest you fall." We can learn and grow from failures.


The list is in no particular order. 


1- Job's friends! Boy did they not get it.  Well one of them did and of course it was the youngest one. HA! Here is this really sick guy, Job, who has lost everything, family, wealth and purpose. Enough to do you in, but he was hanging in there UNTIL the friends showed up. By the time they were done Job was wishing he had never been born.   Way to encourage guys! 


2- Lot's wife really missed it.  What part of fire and brimstone falling out of the sky did she not understand.


3 - Abraham, Sara, and Hagar need I say more.


4 - Aaron made a gold calf to worship.  Aaron dude! Seriously?!!






Who do you know in the Bible that missed it?  Go ahead and leave a comment with your character that didn't get it.